I ran my virtual Boston in 2020 with a sinus infection and a fever of 102 on dirt trails out to Stillwater. finished the distance and threw up in a garbage can.
Switched jobs, gained weight, lost fitness, lost faith, ran less, parented, ran more, sold a house, bought a house, figured out what I wanted to be when I grew up, lost weight regained (some) fitness and here we are.
The last three years are a blur. I haven’t had a good race since 2019 and blamed the running for my poor experience; the truth like most things is more interesting. Running doesn’t care about what you want to get out of it, it does what it does without your input. Road racing and running in general is like riding a bull, you can tell the bull all the things, but in the end it comes down to how much you show respect and are able to hold on for dear life as it carries you away.
I didnt respect the bull and I got thrown. So begin again as Danny says. Rereading my old journal entries and the posts on this little corner of the internet, I forget that the magic of the act of running is what hooked me to begin with. When it works, its like the pain and endorphins are music in your head and your feet is tapping out the rhythm of your soul on the roads.
But you got to show respect for the roads.
Begin again.
Getting back meant starting over. I missed running and feeling genuiny happy. and unexpectedly, I found it on the corner of brookfield road and north avenue at 6:15am.
Some backstory: I went home for the first time since covid began and for no reason in particular the idea of beginning the day running felt like a good form of self care with two littles in the backseat the remainder of the day. So I strapped on my shoes and headed out from the hotel and ran the streets of my childhood alone in steamy mid July heat at dawn.
about 20 minutes into an uneventful run Noah Kahan starts playing on my headphones and croons,
So pack up your car, put a hand to your heart
Say whatever you feel, be wherever you are
We ain’t angry at you, love, you’re the greatest thing we’ve lost
The birds’ll still sing, your folks’ll still fight
The boards’ll still creak, the leaves will still die
We ain’t angry at you, love, we’ll be waiting for you, love
Unexpectedly my pace turned over faster and easier than it had in years; it was like a rope broke holding a ship to the shore and I was free. Bawling in a way I rarely do (I don’t really cry ever) and smiling at the same time, I ran in no particular direction and took in the sights of my cherished memories and places I used to know so well.
So much has changed and for those of us still here it feels like a version of reality, ‘pseudo reality’ as Musil called it, is all of any of us has.
But the birds still sing and leaves still die. So here we go, towards another marathon in the fall, renewed in training spirit, we won’t get the old days back but we can take it with us.
you just got to respect the bull, trust the training, and remember the joy of those footsteps because we won’t be here forever.